diff --git a/src/Bundle/ChillPersonBundle/Validator/Constraints/Relationship/RelationshipNoDuplicateValidator.php b/src/Bundle/ChillPersonBundle/Validator/Constraints/Relationship/RelationshipNoDuplicateValidator.php
index 10e651b56..cb1e5395e 100644
--- a/src/Bundle/ChillPersonBundle/Validator/Constraints/Relationship/RelationshipNoDuplicateValidator.php
+++ b/src/Bundle/ChillPersonBundle/Validator/Constraints/Relationship/RelationshipNoDuplicateValidator.php
@@ -46,7 +46,7 @@ class RelationshipNoDuplicateValidator extends ConstraintValidator
         ]);
 
         foreach ($relationships as $r) {
-            if (
+            if ( spl_object_hash($r) !== spl_object_hash($value) and
                 $r->getFromPerson() === $fromPerson
                 || $r->getFromPerson() === $toPerson
                 || $r->getToPerson() === $fromPerson